Richard
Firstly either I'm ignorant or stupid (could be both), but where has parsnip gone?
Secondly, on your development front, I can only tell what I have done. I quit my job as a salesman after 4 years because 1) I was rubbish at it and 2) I hated it.
So I was at a crossroads and thought 'I have about 40 years of work ahead of me, I may as well do something I like'. I have a fairly good head for numbers, so literally thought 'I'll be an accountant'.
I signed up for CIMA, and set about getting a job at company who would fund me. I ended up at one where my job was to produce weekly MI, all on Excel.
I improved the existing process by creating macros and then in the last 18 months have taght myself to use Access and now produce all MI from there. Now my company wants to move to SQL server and I'm probably going to have to learn that as well. I am now the only one in the company who knows how it all works and get rewarded for it.
So, for your situation, I would have to agree with others who say that you are certainly an excel power user. You've helped me, and I've seen other posts of yours proving as much. If you have an understanding of SQL in whatever form; access, server, VI etc, then you will already have an impressive CV.
Trying to decide what software to learn will be almost impossible as there is so much out there, chances are you'll have to learn something new wherever you end up. I guess you have a thirst for knowledge and 'knowing it all' would bore you anyway?
My advice would initially be to decide what you want to do. Maybe a DB developer, consultant, accountant...
Once you are set down that path then you can look for a company to match - and hopefully become the big fish in the pond. Even if you aren't initially, you keep developing until you are...
i've kind of prattled on now, so good luck Richard. Its not nice being made redundant, but does open up a whole world of new possibilities.