A final Comment
To All those that either read or posted back, my wife and I are extremely grateful for your words and thoughts.
Being able to have a word with others certainly helped us ease the pain
On the upside, my wife now allows me a little more leeway when it comes to Mr Excel and me sitting at the computer, muttering and cursing.
She was truly astounded with the responses from people she didn't even now.
Thanks again to ALL of you....cheers.