Finance - Taking care of your kids

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Smitty

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Well, Greg Truby's post on Melanoma got me to thinking about how many folks don't think about preparing for their children in the event of a tragic loss (or even for things like retirement, college, etc.). Case in point, one of my General Managers, who is in the 6-figure range and her husband (same range) have a daughter about to go to college, and they have no idea how to pay for it. Hell, she just started in the employee stock program and 401(k) this year after I convinced her.

I talk to employees all the time about planning and the grim realization is that very few do (I'm adamant about it, but not being in the 6-figure range, unless you count the decimal points, I do what I can), so I'm going to throw out a few suggestions that I tell employees about. (Please note that the recommendations I'm gonna' make aren't solicited, nor do I have anything to gain...)

1) www.UPromise.com

A non-profit company started by Bill Bennett, a former US Secretary of Education (yeah, I know, that's kind of like "Military Intelligence" right?), that's gotten corporations to pitch in a portion of your spending to tax-free college accounts for your kids. I.E. For every gallon of gas I buy at Exxon/Mobil, $0.01 goes into a trust account for Campbell. (It may not sound like much, but she's not even 2 yet and my wife drives a Ford Exploitation...I think Bradley Tanks get better mileage!) Buy something from Overstock.com and 3% of the purchase goes in, etc. Get my drift?

And friends and family can sign up as well. It's relatively painless too; just register your credit cards and "charges made at qualifying merchants" go into the kiddo's college fund. (Tax-free too!)

2) www.sharebuilder.com

For those of you who don't have brokerage accounts, this is the place to start! There's no minimum to start an account, and you can buy stock on the basic plan for $4 per trade. They also do dollar-cost-averaging and DRiPs. I.E. I've got $10, but the stock I want to buy costs $55/share; OK, then you get $10 worth...(of course with a $4 trade fee, that'd be a stupid buy! ;)) You can also direct deposit into them and the $ sits in a money market account earning $$$ until you decide where to put it.

DriPs-->Dividend Reinvestment Plan...I.E. I used to get checks from my company's trading house everytime there was a quarterly dividend. Yeah, I'm going to go drive to the bank and spend an hour in line for $1.09! Well, a drip means that $ goes right into your account and gets reinvested. In fact I have a check for $1.87 and I can't believe that I'm going to waste $0.37 to send it in! (OK, my company has some wires crossed and sends me checks for stock I already sold, so who am I to complain?)

3) www.ingdirect.com

A Netherlands based bank, but 100% Internet. Again, no fees involved, but they're paying 3.85% on a savings account right now! What's your bank pay? 0.85%? They do direct deposit from you paycheck as well and you've just got to love the no fee thing.

It's a no brainer for "rainy-day" money.

4) www.legalzoom.com

OK, so this one was done by Robert Shapiro, one of the guys who helped OJ get off, but if you've got a family, write a WILL, will ya'! From what I've heard, California Probate court sucks, and your wife will certainly desecrate your grave if she has to go through it alone. I think it's about $99, but they do everything, including the filing and they're not limited to CA.

5) www.quicken.com

Yeah, this one costs, but get your **** finances in order! My wife consistently has -$12 in the bank because of not using it and I consistenly have $12.50 to bail her out because of it! :huh:

Just some thoughts from a guy whose pot to pi$$ in ain't sterling silver.

Take care,

Smitty
 

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Guess that explains your username then Smitty.

Even better with ING at the moment, unless it's just in the UK, just moved my savings account to them. Got 4.87% which'll do me.

Nick
 
Hello,
pennysaver said:
DriPs-->Dividend Reinvestment Plan...I.E. I used to get checks from my company's trading house everytime there was a quarterly dividend. Yeah, I'm going to go drive to the bank and spend an hour in line for $1.09! Well, a drip means that $ goes right into your account and gets reinvested. In fact I have a check for $1.87 and I can't believe that I'm going to waste $0.37 to send it in! (OK, my company has some wires crossed and sends me checks for stock I already sold, so who am I to complain?)
I'm not one to try and discourage saving and being financially responsible, but make sure the record keeping is tight on these.

Here's a couple things that come to mind with these or even more so, purchase plans:

1) Do they disclose what price you're buying in at? Are you paying 10 times market value? I’ve backed into some scary looking prices on something similar…

2) What happens when you sell and it's time to pay Uncle Sam? What's the cost-basis for your gain?

If you're getting shoddy records on this stuff and/or have to back into your own cost-basis, some of these ongoing infusion plans strike me as a logistical nightmare for tax purposes. To the extent where I might just be tempted to let that $1.09 transfer to a money market account (most brokerages should be able to handle this), and add it to other dollars come time for my next investment.

In any event, good hunting. :)
 
1) Do they disclose what price you're buying in at? Are you paying 10 times market value? I’ve backed into some scary looking prices on something similar…

2) What happens when you sell and it's time to pay Uncle Sam? What's the cost-basis for your gain?
Good points. If you're going to blindly invest and expect someone else to take care of potential implications for you then you're better off keeping your money in Savings.

1) Market value. They're an up-n-up low cost brokerage firm. I suppose you could go with any of the "name brands", like Ameritrade. I just chose Sharebuilder because they had the best offerings at the time. Many are using similar models nowadays.

2) Determining cost basis is on you, but I have to the the same when I sell my ESPP shares. I use Quicken, so it's calculated automatically though. But it does take some dilligence when setting it up.

As for putting dividends into the MM fund, that's the default; you have to opt-in for DRiPs.

Smitty
 
pennysaver said:
1) Market value. They're an up-n-up low cost brokerage firm. I suppose you could go with any of the "name brands", like Ameritrade. I just chose Sharebuilder because they had the best offerings at the time. Many are using similar models nowadays.
I'm just not sure what up-n-up means, though. I have nothing against them, but I wouldn’t be surprised if Ameritrade is out of business tomorrow…

All I'm saying is keep them honest, if they're not telling you how many shares you bought for x dollars, even if it seems like small dollars, tie it out. There's no sense in buying $.2 for $1.00 if it's readily available elsewhere.

If there's no commission on trades, buyer beware, the people managing this money/executing these trades have to make a living one way or another... Want one way to do it? Take the high end of a 2-week trading average, etc....

pennysaver said:
2) Determining cost basis is on you, but I have to the the same when I sell my ESPP shares. I use Quicken, so it's calculated automatically though. But it does take some diligence when setting it up.
I’m not sure it should be up to the individual for a few reasons. Most people will not back into their trades and store accurate records, to be sure. That is each week, quarter, whatever, determine how many shares they bought at what price and then figure out their basis. And what happens when you sell part of your holdings, say 3/4 of your stock? Are you using FIFO or LIFO? This will affect your gain and liability pending when you bought the issue and where the price was at....

These things make me cringe more than VBA... My two cents. But still, yes, save and invest, just be careful about what you're doing. :)
 
The part about the long term insurance...it is worth every penny. My mom got it, and my dad ranted and raved about the cost...but she kept it. Then, two years later, she suffered from three back to back strokes. It meant over three months in a nursing/rehab place, which the insurance paid for. Now, since Dad has passed away, Mom is in an assisted living place, very, very nice, and the insurance is again helping to pay for it. If it was not for the insurance, then she would either have to be in a regular nursing home, (and around here there aren't any nice ones that don't smell or are questionable in their care) or she would have to live with me in my car. (I would have to quit my job to take care of her, as I don't have a way to pay for a nurse, no job means no way to pay bills, not paying bills means living in car) Soo...LONG TERM INSURANCE MAKES LOTS OF SENSE! And don't think that you can put it off. Mom was 62 when she had her strokes.
 

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