Karen,
Agreed regarding the use of VBA. To get you started, you'll want to look at the Shapes.AddConnector Method (
link).
The type you're going to want is likely
msoConnectorStraight.
Assuming the position is always going to be the same - To make it easier on you, I would suggest recording a macro to get the Begin X/Y & End X/Y values that you'll want for each of your lines. Otherwise you're going to have to do a ton of trial and error in order to get the values you need. In case you don't know, go to the Developer tab at the top of excel, on the left side, right under the Insert tab, is "Record Macro". Click on that button, click OK. Go to the Insert tab at the top, in the Illustrations group, choose Shapes, then choose line. Draw the lines (i would suggest doing one at a time. In between each line, go back to the developer tab and click stop recording, and then click record macro again. this way each of your lines is in it's own macro and will help to reduce confusion)...just a tip regarding drawing the lines...if you hold the shift key, it will make the line either a perfect 180 degree angle or a perfect 90 degree angle, depending upon the angle of the line when you press the shift key.
Once you get your lines drawn and your macros recorded, press ALT + F11. On the left side, you should see "VBAProject (PERSONAL.XLSB)", expand that, then expand modules, and double click on Module1 to look at the recorded macros.
From there you can implement into a module/macro within your workbook and you can come up with the logic of when to show what lines, when to remove (delete) the lines, etc.
I don't know if I just went way over the top for you in explaining this...I have no idea how much you know about VBA, so I decided to just explain as much as I could.