Do you have the "Record New Macro" button visible on your toolbar? If not, it's a timesaver to have it always visible on your customized worksheet toolbars and the Stop Recording toolbar should automatically appear with the Relative Reference button as soon as you click the Record New Macro button as you enter recording mode.
If that does not work, try this: start recording a macro, then click on View > Toolbars from the worksheet menu, and select "Stop Recording". The stop recording toolbar will now appear. Now immediately click the Stop Recording button, then start the recording process again and you should see the Stop recording toolbar pop up with the Relative Reference button.
Any help?
Tom Urtis
Thank you for the help. It was very useful.